when did I go back to high school?

Seriously. I'm not one for drama. MInus the onstage sort.

But I'm known for having an opinion. I'm known for speaking my mind when I need to. I stand firm by what I say. I'm not a waffler. Plus there is a time to speak your opinion, such as if you are a member of a community and something is upsetting people on there, upsetting you and others but no one has said anything. Something has to say something. I don't mind saying something. I feel like I should. Communities don't work if there are people unhappy because of what other people are doing and something can indeed by done.

I'm a little annoyed that a select few are now vilifying me as if I'm solely to blame. Me and another community member got into a fight and things got a bit out of hand. I'm not going to go into all the details. Needless to say, we both did things that were not in the best interest. We both said things we shouldn't. She pushed, I pushed back, etc etc. Neither of us can fairly say we are in the right, and I haven't bothered to try.

I don't want to explain the whole situation here. But needless to say, other community members have gotten involved and it's turned into fucking high school. Only like dumbshit high school. Dramatized high school, as done by the media where it's like fighting and whatnot. Like mean girls style. It's so dumb. I wish people were more adult about this. Could recognize before they spoke up and put their nose in somewhere it doesn't belong (I know this might seem hypocritical but I spoke up about a community wide problem not about a feud between people who should be allowed to work it out on their own.) that there are always two sides to every story and it's doubtful either party is entirely innocent and that personal attacks weren't going to help matters.

Seriously? Why can't people be adults?

I want more kittens. They make better humans than humans.