elaboration

Well, I'm not really sure that it needs all that much elaboration. Because something casual isn't termed a fuck buddy so they aren't the same thing.

I was talking to a guy. I was going to say a person but it was a guy and that is still vague enough for you to not know who he is. We were talking about relationships and stuff and he was asking me why I wasn't dating currently. It's a long story and that isn't the point of the blog so let's go with the explanation that I'm just not. Which was what I was trying on giving me. Because that's generally the case. But the main point was I'm not looking for something serious. I don't want to deal with the hassle of keeping up a relationship. I want the benefits of being in a relationship without the dramatic upkeep. Because I feel like keeping one up requires a lot more work than I'm willing to put out right now. But that doesn't mean I want a fuck buddy. See the difference?

A fuck buddy is someone who's purpose is to have sex with. That is not the only benefit of being in a relationship and it's not the only benefit I want. It's nice to have someone you can hang out with and spend time with, maybe go on a date with. But something casual. Not something where you could have an anniversary because you aren't actually dating in a serious form. Just casual, no strings, if something better comes along no big deal kind of thing.